Leaving can be the hardest thing to do.
Despite the careful choreography of the traditions there can, sometimes, be those awkward moments when people are unsure what to say and praise and thanks can be more forced and false than true and heartfelt. Not so, I think, today.
I’d “met” Mr S through his work in the Joomla community when I was trying to build and support websites for an online community. In a large corporation you bump into people every day. In an internationally based corporation it’s even more confusing with people appearing from all over the world and from every timezone. It’s rare, therefore, to happen across someone with whom you “click”. It can be a comment or turn of phrase but something makes you listen a little more closely and like that little bit more.
I can’t remember what that moment was with Mr S but it was there and over his two years with us the appreciation grew in good times and bad. OK, mainly bad. The long and dire days of trying to implement The Big Project; the struggles with the faceless, nonsensical guardians of Corporate Standards which drove us running and screaming to the safe haven of Opensource; the fun of watching the Wiki grow, even if it was just us that added things.
If I’m honest the resignation wasn’t a surprise but it was still a moment of sadness but you have to be happy that someone has, hopefully, found something better to move onto and get on with the last rites of leaving.
So, we met for the final time to handover the keys of the Linux kingdom and reminisce on past times.
Looking back it’s amazing at what we have achieved. We had little or no funding just the grand ideas of our masters to build up something in the UK with very leading edge technology and no knowledge of it from anyone (even the supplier) in this country. From floundering upgrades we soared to demos to large corporations showing all the wonder of the product.
“ Laughing and shouting we undertook the Seat Ibiza at the traffic lights : respect to the Volvo diesel estate ”
We fought hard to create a community and share information in a place where it’s rare for people to speak in the same country, let alone worldwide. It’s still early days but it’s there, with things in it, a good foundation which needs to be built upon.
We set and promoted standards. Above all, we tried.
So much of that was down to him and his patience to explain, explain and explain again something that once, technically, I’d have picked up the first time around.
The tragedy is not that we didn’t use him but that we didn’t use him in the right way.
But today it was a chance to get together, say thanks and hope the future is more rosy, settled and happy. As a parting shot we had a fine example of customer service skills from the lady at the coffee bar; a final trip to Subway (still no brie); the presentation of the leaving presents and a rather enjoyable curry.
Over the years Mr S has become known for three things : a penchant for gadgets, wearing skirts and The Amazing Lager Shandy Trick and the Sipson Curry House was the ideal place for a final reprise of the latter.
A long, leisurely final supper of curry, football, larger and memories before that final trip to the office, a handshake and farewells.
Thanks for all your hard work.
Good luck Troozers.